It’s been three years since Ben Affleck, 46, and Jennifer Garner, also 46, announced they were getting a divorce after 10 years of marriage. And let’s just say that everyone was shocked to hear that a couple that looked like they were going to be one of those rare Hollywood couples that makes it was actually saying adios to each other instead. The divorce was officially finalized three years later in October of 2018, but plenty occurred until then.

On the career side of things, both actors have starred in their fair share of movies since they decided to call it quits. Jennifer has acted in everything from Miracles from Heaven, to Love, Simon, to appearing in the television show Camping. Ben, on the other hand, has been in movies like The Accountant and most notably, played Batman in Justice League, the latter role being one that not many people believed he should have snagged. But perhaps that wasn’t exactly on Ben’s mind as he was doing his best to survive a split.

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