After Alec Baldwin was arrested for alleged assault and harassment over a parking spot dispute in November, his wife, Hilaria Baldwin, tried to figure out a way to minimize his anger. Taking matters into her own hands, the mom-of-four came up with a way to calm down her high-tempered hubby.

“We’re doing a lot of deep breathing and namaste work at home,” Hilaria told Good Day New York host Rosanna Scotto on Dec. 10. “Have you ever gotten upset about a parking space?” the fitness guru asked Rosanna, before explaining that she’s been helping the Saturday Night Live star work on his erratic temperament.

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The author certainly did not say she was unblemished, however, Hilaria explained how she and Alec always try to bring out the best in each other. “There’s probably a yin and a yang to it, right? I definitely… There are places where he definitely makes me a better person and he gives me perspective, and there’s definitely ways where I give him perspective.”

Perhaps Hilaria, 34, and Alec, 60, just want to be the best versions of themselves for their four kiddos. Together, the couple shares Carmen, 5, Rafael, 3, Leonardo, 2, and Romeo, six months. To the toddlers, Hilaria is the mama, but according to the yoga instructor, she is also known as “the boss.” The brunette beauty opened up to Hola! in May about parenting and family dynamics for the Baldwinitos.

“I am the boss at home and everybody knows that. They call me that. You ask them, ‘Who is the boss’ and they’ll say ‘Mommy is the boss,'” Hilaria revealed. “Alec lets me be the alpha parent, which is definitely our personalities and it works well.”

We’re not sure if Alec put up a fight to be the alpha parent, but according to the 30 Rock star, his kids like Hilaria more than him. “Being a father can be very challenging because kids are obsessed with their mothers,” the actor explained to People in the beginning in the year. “I’m in a room with my kids and I’m doing really well until my wife walks in! They just dump me.” Looks like Hilaria may be the healer of all things!