Julia Roberts and Husband Danny Moder Have Conflicting Parenting Styles

Julia Roberts and Danny Moder‘s marriage isn’t as perfect as it may seem!

The couple — who are mom and dad to twins Phinneaus and Hazel, both 12, and a son, Henry, 9 — often argue about how to properly parent their three kids.

“They both love their kids very much,” an insider told Closer Weekly, “but they have very different ideas on how they should be raised.”

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Julia, Danny and their three kids in August 2015.

The source added that Danny “acts like a friend” to their kids, while Julia is more of a worrier and “feels like her kids need more boundaries than ‘normal’ kids” because of their Hollywood lifestyle.

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When the two find themselves arguing over it, the insider shared that Danny, 47, escapes to his studio across the street from their Malibu, Calif. estate. Julia, 49, instead practices meditation and yoga, and also spends time with her sister Lisa and her friends.

For more on Julia and Danny, pick up the new issue of Closer Weekly, on newsstands now!

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