Over the years, we’ve gotten to know the Grey’s Anatomy cast pretty intimately — on screen. But how much do we know about them, and their families, in real life? (Not nearly enough, right?) Here’s all of your favorite Grey’s stars and the gorgeous families and children they have off-screen. Talk about living charmed lives!

Ellen Pompeo (Meredith Grey)

Ellen Pompeo married her husband, music producer Chris Ivery, in 2007. Since tying the knot, the two have gone on to have three gorgeous children — Stella Luna Pompeo Ivery, 8, Sienna May Pompeo Ivery, 3, and Eli Christopher Pompeo Ivery, almost 1.

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Justin Chambers (Alex Karev)

Justin Chambers and his wife, Keisha Chambers, a former model agency booker, got married in 1993. Together, they have a whopping five kids together — Isabella, 23, twins Maya and Kaila, 20, Eva, 18, and Jackson, 15. And as if that’s not enough, the couple also have a couple of rescue dogs, too!

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Chandra Wilson (Miranda Bailey)

Chandra Wilson has been notoriously mum when it comes to her husband, claiming she wants to him to keep his privacy. That said, the pair have reportedly been together since college and married after their second daughter was born. Together, they have three kids—Sarina, born in 1993, Joylin, born in 1998, and Michael, who was born on Halloween 2005.

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James Pickens, Jr. (Richard Webber)

In 1984, James Pickens, Jr. married his wife, Gina Taylor, a former member of the band Mustique. The pair have two children together — Carl Tharps and Gavyn Picken — both who are pursuing careers in show biz.

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Kevin McKidd (Owen Hunt)

Unfortunately, Kevin McKidd and his former wife, Jane Parker, divorced in 2016, but the pair have two beautiful children together — Joseph,17, and Iona, 15. “Kevin and Jane have jointly decided to end their marriage,” the actor’s rep said in a statement after they divorced. “They look forward to continuing to co-parent their children, who have been their top priority, and will to continue to enjoy a close and caring relationship.”

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Jessica Capshaw (Arizona Robbins)

Jessica Capshaw (whose mother is Kate Capshaw) wed Healthy Child Healthy World CEO Christopher Gavigan in 2004. The pair have four children together—Luke Hudson, 10, Eve Augusta, 7, Poppy James, 5, and Josephine Kate, 1.

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Jesse Williams (Jackson Avery)

Jesse Williams and his wife Aryn Drake-Lee wed in 2012, but the pair are no longer together. They share joint custody of their two children — Sadie, 3, and Maceo, 2.

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Sarah Drew (April Kepner)

Sarah married Peter Lanfer, a lecturer at UCLA, in 2002. Ten years later, they welcomed their first child, Micah Emmanuel, and two years after that, the couple welcomed daughter Hannah Mali Rose.

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Caterina Scorsone (Amelia Shepherd)

Caterina Scorsone is married to musician Rob Giles, and the pair have two daughters together — Eliza, 5, and Paloma, almost 1. “I’m with her. Introducing Paloma Michaela Giles. The future is female,” the actress captioned her first photo of her little girl — along with an “I Voted” sticker.

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Camilla Luddington (Jo Wilson)

UK-born Camilla Luddington is in a committed relationship with actor Matthew Alan. Together, they have one daughter together, Hayden, born in April of this year.

Jason George (Ben Warren)

Jason George and his wife, USC professor and author Vandana Khanna, have been married for years now. Their three kids — Jasmine, Arun, and Nikhil — couldn’t be cuter.

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