Yesterday, Drew Barrymore shared a headline-generating selfie on Instagram. What was so comment-worthy about the picture? It wasn't the fact that she's barefaced with no makeup, that's been a celebrity trend for some time now. It was that she sported bushy, unplucked eyebrows and a few wiry gray hairs in her parting — you know, like a "real" woman.
Fans and followers were quick to comment on the image, praising the actress for "keeping it real" and being "impressive." Media outlets immediately followed up with news stories about the picture, celebrating the 42-year-old star for her "real" selfie.
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While it is of course admirable that Hollywood icon Drew is confident enough to share such an unglamorous picture with her thousands of followers, it does highlight the ridiculous standards women hold themselves to thanks to filtered Instagram posts, retouched magazine images, and airbrushed red-carpet appearances.
#becomingsheila OH MY GOD How did I let it get this bad. Base and brows needed. Must become her. #santaclaritadiet here we go again. Season two. A post shared by Drew Barrymore (@drewbarrymore) on Jul 31, 2017 at 9:49am PDT
#becomingsheila OH MY GOD How did I let it get this bad. Base and brows needed. Must become her. #santaclaritadiet here we go again. Season two.
A post shared by Drew Barrymore (@drewbarrymore) on Jul 31, 2017 at 9:49am PDT
The same is true whenever a celebrity forgets to shave; suddenly their decision to eschew the razor for a few days is greeted as some kind of feminist statement. The same can be said about dressed-down stars, the phenomenon of "no makeup" selfies and greasy top knots: all of these relatively routine decisions — to dress in whatever is lying around, to avoid heavy foundation or to not wash your hair — are suddenly fetishized as "brave" decisions.
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Just look at Chrissy Teigen. Heralded as one of the most relatable celebrities thanks to her candid nature and outspoken views, she can't help but generate news whenever she highlights her normalcy — namely having stretch-marks or getting bad skin on her period. These are two things that should just be accepted anyway.
Happy birthday, beautiful papa. A post shared by chrissy teigen (@chrissyteigen) on Dec 28, 2016 at 12:17pm PST
Happy birthday, beautiful papa.
A post shared by chrissy teigen (@chrissyteigen) on Dec 28, 2016 at 12:17pm PST
We need to start actually normalizing the way women look — rather than jumping on an A-lister "keeping it real" every-time they post a picture with a hair out of place — and also quit constantly placing so much value on our looks full stop.
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Drew looks great here — and yes, normal or "real" — because women get gray hairs and don't always groom their eyebrows — but is that really worthy of a headline? Let's hope it won't be for much longer.
This post was written by Rebecca Cope. It originally appeared on our sister site, Now to Love.
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